“A Place Where I Felt Safe”—Casa Misericordia Offers Shelter and Security for Victims of Domestic Violence

January 12, 2018

The Sisters of Mercy stand in solidarity with our immigrant and refugee brothers and sisters. This blog post is part of week-long focus on Mercy and immigration, including historical accounts of the sisters’ roots as immigrants in the 19th century as well as a look at Mercy ministries, past and present, serving our immigrant and refugee sisters and brothers. Visit the webpage for Mercy for Immigrants to learn more.

Maria* writes:

My baby was four months old, and my son was four years old. My son was diagnosed with dyslexia, autism and ADHD. My husband did not want to accept that our son was ill. This caused many of our fights and much of my beatings.

The manager of the apartment complex where I lived came by to see me and found me all beat up and called the police for me. Through her I found that a place existed where I could get help. A place where I felt safe. I was so afraid and embarrassed and did not know what the future was going to look like.

Sister Rosemary with a woman at Casa de Misericordia.

Sister Rosemary visits with a woman at Casa de Misericordia.

The police brought Maria and her children to Casa Misericordia, a shelter for victims of domestic violence in Laredo, Texas. Seventy-five to 80 percent of the women at Casa are undocumented, and their immigration issues often compound their domestic situations, says Sister Rosemary Welsh, executive director of Casa.

“Sometimes the abuser is a U.S. permanent resident or a citizen, and they hold that over their victim, threatening to call immigration and take away her children. Sometimes the victims worry about their future if they leave, since without papers they have no way to earn money and feed their kids. And sometimes the victims are afraid to call the police, fearing they will be deported if the police find out they are undocumented,” Sister Rosemary explained.

A New Beginning

But once a victim comes to Casa, her life begins to change. It is the only domestic violence shelter in the area which welcomes women who are pregnant and provides counseling services. Additionally, Casa’s staff connect the women to a variety of resources: job training, “know your rights” classes, immigration legal aid and more.  
Since Casa’s opening in 1998, Sister Rosemary has relied on collaboration. “You cannot be a lone ranger,” she said. She works regularly with ICE, border patrol, the sheriff’s office, local law enforcement as well as other advocacy groups. “Many times we collaborate with people with whom we don’t necessarily agree about everything,” she said. “But we need to respect their work, and they need to respect ours. We need to be able to talk through our issues in a productive way.”

Helping Immigrants See Hope

Sister Rosemary says her passion to serve immigrants began in 1981, when she ministered in Guatemala alongside sisters from Honduras, Mexico and Argentina. “I saw firsthand the situation—how U.S. policies had for years wreaked havoc in Latin American countries, creating violence and fear and compelling so many immigrants to cross the border in hopes of a better life. They did not, do not, want to leave their homes, their kids. They are so afraid, and they see no hope where they are.”

With help from Sister Rosemary and Casa staff, Maria is now able to see hope:

The staff and the volunteers assisted me with making a plan of action. For once, I felt that I was in control of my life and that of my children. I was able to get legal assistance and referrals to other services such as housing, and slowly, I became brave enough to start a new life. I learned how to help other women and families who have been in my situation. I was also assisted in applying for a U.S. Visa and am waiting for a response. I hope to get my social security number so I can work and become self-sufficient.

Maria’s story is just one of many. “We have to take every opportunity we can when it comes to helping our immigrant brothers and sisters,” said Sister Rosemary. “Hearts can be changed by this work of Mercy.”

*Name changed to protect the identity of the domestic violence survivor.

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  1. Fran Repka, rsm

    Thank you for the timely work of Mercy you do with our immigrant sisters and brothers, Rosie.

  2. Pat Oliver

    Love the work done at Casa. I witnessed that while I was in Texas. Casa is truly Mercy in action.

  3. Sr Jackie Moreau

    This is encouraging news. The stuff that doesn’t make the papers.
    Thanks for your sharing.

  4. Mary Stanton

    You and your staff are amazing, Rosie. The way that you collaborate with so many other entities in order to engage impasse in helping suffering persons and families is such a great example. Hearts are changed by you and by your community of Mercy as Casa Misericordia. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

  5. Richard Mary Burke

    Rosie, you continue to inspire me – and so many others -on a daily basis. Thank you for your faith, courage, joy and lightheartedness and deep passion for those most in need. Love to you and all of your partners in Mercy.

  6. Denise Sausville, RSM

    Rosie, I can’t thank you enough for your faithfulness and enduring commitment to these women over these many years. This has been a cutting-edge ministry that serves those in most need. May God continue to bless you and them now and into the future. denise